Free To Be Me: Blogs

Here I share thoughts and guidance on grief, loss and the journey of healing. Whether you’re coping with bereavement, suicide loss or struggling to find hope again, these posts offer understanding and gentle support as you begin to rebuild life in your own way.


 

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How do I know if this is grief or depression, or both?

Grief, low mood and emotional exhaustion: why this doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you.   more  

Why does moving forward after grief feel like a betrayal?

Why moving forward can feel like betrayal, and how healing doesn’t mean leaving love behind.  more  

How do you cope when Christmas feels lonely?

If this Christmas feels lonely or painful, you’re not alone. Grief can make even the brightest time of year feel dim.  more  

When Grief Divides: Disputes Over a Loved One’s Ashes

When families disagree over a loved one’s ashes, grief can deepen. Learn about the legal rights, emotional impact and how counselling can help you find peace.   more  

Counselling & Me: How did I get here?

I wanted to share my experience and how I became a therapist.   more  

Fear of Dying

Facing the Fear of Dying: How Bereavement Can Awaken Our Deepest Fears   more  

Grief & health anxiety

Health anxiety can be linked to or a direct result of grief, why is that?  more  

Spotlight on Self Doubt

When self-doubt becomes a constant companion, it can undermine confidence, relationships, and your sense of purpose.  more  

Procrastination ...Putting things off

You know you need to do something, it might even be really important yet you just can't commit to doing it. Sounds like procrastination.   more  

The Depression Loop

What comes up for you when you think about depression?  more